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How to Start a Threesome at Your First Time



In life, there is always a first time to everything: first time to taste a sumptuous meal, first time to ask an opposite sex out, first time to have sex, and first time to start a threesome. No matter what the case is, the first time does not have to be an uncool experience. Most times, the first times are great and last a lifetime because of how memorable they play. The same can apply to your threesome dating.


One may ask, when is the best time to start a threesome as a beginner? The answer is now. How does it feel to have one? The feeling is ecstatic and highly pleasurable.


Imagine this, if one person can bring so much, imagine what having a threesome would feel like.


Either way, read to learn how to start a threesome for the first time.


Starting Threesome Dating As a Beginner


Threesome dating is not a big deal. You only need the know-how to be on top of your game. Follow closely:


1. Have some confidence


You need confidence to be that guy that can desire and have that desired threesome experience. “The journey of a thousand miles begins with a step” but you must be confident to take that first step. You can look into the mirror and give yourself some pep talk. Once confidence is sorted, you will realize that threesome dating is no big feat.


2. Speak to someone (your second)


You need a second before you can think of a third. Since confidence is checked, you can walk up to someone for them to be your partner. A partner does not mean a serious relationship, it could just be a casual fling. Everyone lives in the moment and disperse at the end of the day.


On the flip side, it could be your lucky day and you may be speaking with a couple looking for a unicorn. That is the simplest experience you can have as a beginner.


3. Explore Threesome Dating Sites


This is the Information Age as the world is now at your fingertips. With a few clicks and swipes, you can join an threesome dating site like ThirdFun that allows you to be a third to a couple. These sites have different types of dating relationships - Gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and queer. You can select any choice that tickles your fancy.


Similarly, you can use advanced features like search to know the people in your immediate environment and connect with them. You do not need much experience to use these platforms as they have great features for optimal user experience.


4. Social media platforms


Social media is another valid option you can use to connect with people. Easier to use than the adult sites, you can see people express their desires for a threesome moment.


Also, you can see invites for a swinger party on social media platforms. These are the ideal places to connect with like-minds that are ready to explore the threesome dating world. [Read: How to find someone for a threesome]


Remember, your first time experience can be magical. The ball is in your court. Go for gold.

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